Beloved: How to go from relationship-challenged to relationship-ready by Suzanne Renée

Author:Suzanne, Renée [Suzanne, Renée]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Unknown
Published: 2016-04-03T16:00:00+00:00

Chapter 7 - It’s hard to see yourself

Have you ever tried to put on makeup without a mirror? It’s pretty much impossible, at least if you want to look nice. You can’t see your face without a mirror. This doesn’t mean you’re wrong or incompetent. It’s simply a limitation of inhabiting a physical body.

When you’re working out at the gym, sometimes you need to check your form. You may think that you’re doing an exercise properly, but a mirror will tell you for sure. That’s why they have mirrors at the gym, they’re not just for checking out your fellow gym-goers.

We all have trouble seeing ourselves and being objective when it comes to what’s really happening in our lives, especially in the areas we’re not so happy with. This is where a friend, coach, or mentor can be indispensable.

Some of the most successful people on the planet have had mentors, including Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg. Success is not a one-person show. It’s not easy to live an outstanding life. That’s why most people don’t.

It is easy to settle for whatever happens in your life. If you meet someone, that’s great. If you don’t, you complain that luck wasn’t on your side or that you just never met the right person. These beliefs may be comforting, but they won’t help you create the extraordinary love you long for. If you make no effort to have the things you want in life, you’re probably not going to reach your goals.

If you want to be in a wonderful relationship with a man who is great for you, realize that it’s probably not just going to happen on its own. What you want is special, something that a lot of people don’t have. The reason they don’t is because it takes effort to get an extraordinary result. Make no mistake, a truly loving, healthy, functional relationship is extraordinary. These kinds of relationships don’t just happen.

Most people who achieve something amazing have had some help along the way. These people had mentors, they got an education, or they worked with coaches.

Successful people aren’t just lucky, they’re dedicated to achieving the results they want to have and they set up a support system for themselves. They don’t just go it alone and hope for the best.

Top performing athletes have coaches. Coaches improve your performance. Coaching isn’t for people who are incapable of managing their lives, it’s for people who want to live extraordinary lives. A coach can provide accountability and shorten your learning curve. You will benefit from their training and experience.

Accountability is key. People perform better when they’re accountable to someone. Everyone has had a teacher, a coach or a boss at some point in life. Even if you find your boss annoying, you probably achieve more than you would if you didn’t have a boss. You know that you need to get to work on time every day and produce something. You have some deliverables and standards to meet. If you don’t meet your boss’s expectations, you may lose your job.

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